love yourself first; always.
so, i been avoiding bloggin for a while, and i blog deep shit all the time,but i havent been because i feel like alot of people are judging me and my character right now because of my actions and how things are affecting people, its making me look like a heart-less uncaring person and thats not what it is. and i dont have to explain myself to anyone, because at the end of the day aslong as im at peace with myself then thats what counts. if my friends and family agree with me thats a plus, but i think like everyone- YOU HAVE TO LOVE YOURSELF FIRST.
everything that is happening right now with a certain situation in myself comes from that as my motivate- putting myself first. when it comes to love i have always been gulity of putting who i love first. and thats not right, and not fair to me. and right now i feel like myself has enough of that shit. im hurt and as much as people think they've seen both sides its not true. you havent seen my pain, and its not about seeing who suffers more at all. its just i dont wanna be wrongfully accused of being the bad guy.i have to put myself first before i can love or even care about anyone. and im sorry that im hurting someone i love. i truly am very sorry, but i have to look out for me. but i will not apologize for my actions, because im doing what makes ME happy. i cant chain myself to a promise to someone while setting myself up for failure for lying to myself. it will work out in the long run for everyone.
and i didnt even get deep in this entry at all. but i guess i said what i had to say. and thats what it is. if people cant see that then they cant really see eye-to-eye with me. no common ground, and theres really nothing i can do, my actions are because i have to love me. thats what it is, nothing more and nothing less.
wow. i just read what i wrote and this entry in itself sounds heartless but i feel like im against the world right now, so how vulnerable can i be when i feel like no matter what i say people are against me.its not right, and its not fair.....
everything that is happening right now with a certain situation in myself comes from that as my motivate- putting myself first. when it comes to love i have always been gulity of putting who i love first. and thats not right, and not fair to me. and right now i feel like myself has enough of that shit. im hurt and as much as people think they've seen both sides its not true. you havent seen my pain, and its not about seeing who suffers more at all. its just i dont wanna be wrongfully accused of being the bad guy.i have to put myself first before i can love or even care about anyone. and im sorry that im hurting someone i love. i truly am very sorry, but i have to look out for me. but i will not apologize for my actions, because im doing what makes ME happy. i cant chain myself to a promise to someone while setting myself up for failure for lying to myself. it will work out in the long run for everyone.
and i didnt even get deep in this entry at all. but i guess i said what i had to say. and thats what it is. if people cant see that then they cant really see eye-to-eye with me. no common ground, and theres really nothing i can do, my actions are because i have to love me. thats what it is, nothing more and nothing less.
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wow. i just read what i wrote and this entry in itself sounds heartless but i feel like im against the world right now, so how vulnerable can i be when i feel like no matter what i say people are against me.its not right, and its not fair.....
i am not unbecoming. i am becoming myself.
so please don't knock me for looking out for myself.
you know you would do the same.
so please don't knock me for looking out for myself.
you know you would do the same.
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